The fact that all women want to get married is a myth. Not all! But the irony of fate is that the less the girl wants to marry, the more they try to drag her down the aisle. Who will men marry? Since childhood, we have been told many myths about what it takes to get married, these absurdities penetrate our heads so firmly that girls who really want to say the coveted “yes” can sit by the window waiting for the prince to be 30 to 40 years old . What kind of girl do all men need without exception?
Let's try to remember everything advice that our mothers and grandmothers gave us:
- never call first
- don't kiss on a first date
- no sex before the wedding
- you have to be economic
- the better you cook, the more will be willing to marry you
- he is a man, you have to obey him in everything (how is it possible to hold on to sex before the wedding, it is not clear)
- don't get smart, try to talk less and listen more
- dress modestly
Can you imagine this silent woman in the modest blue dressing gown of a cleaning lady who is desperately looking into her boyfriend’s mouth? A girl with a facial expression of imbecile, who does not understand anything from what her companion says, and who is undermining at the first opportunity to cook borsch. I wonder where they should meet? The club will not work - face control will not miss. Restaurants and bars - what kind of hostess she is, she cannot cook on her own. Even the good old library is not an option, the damn Internet cut off the last opportunity to get married, men have not been seen there since 1996.
So what must be in order to really get married. Many texts from the Internet and magazine articles offer 2 options.
Be a bitch! Love yourself, pretend that you do not need anyone, swim in men, have fun and enjoy life. Only when you start to enjoy, then your one and only will appear. Who writes such things? They really think that a girl at 20, 25 or 27, who desperately wants to get married, can easily forget about her age and go all out? “Second-second, oh, I forgot about everything! Mmm, I really don't need anyone, I'm a really sexy kitty. I’ll play as men, I have never done it, but the opened mantras will help me, my instincts will go to battle! ”Even if a miracle happens and a newly made bitch gets to know a good guy, will her bitchiness blow away in a week, and what will remain? How to behave then? Do not answer, do not call, score on everything and look further? Such articles are good if you have just been dumped or not yet picked up, then you can think of revenge on all the wretches, a 100% change and other rubbish. Once a normal girl meets a guy, she begins to love him and cannot, and should not, bother with all sorts of plans to conquer the world and its individual elements. In this case, she decides to become herself.
Become yourself! Well, here all the girls are cunning. What does it mean to become yourself? On the third day to eat his brain on the subject: "Is it time for us to get married, why pull something?" Not all girls, being themselves, would so cleanly lick an apartment before his arrival. How can you not make wild scandals about calls from women or not ask: “Who called?”, If you are yourself? What girl in her right mind and bright memory will become so interested in following the storyline of any action movie with Stetham? And affectionate advice to go to friends while you are cleaning, washing, ironing and preparing dinner, that you really do not need help? “I will move the cabinets themselves and wipe the dust under them, because I always do that.”
What to become? For starters, forget about the super actress. A man chooses a wife for himself, not a housekeeper. Do not rush to the stove, at the earliest opportunity, do not offer him to rub all his things while he is at work. He feels where you are aiming and as long as possible does not offer you to get married. And why would he do this, when everything is so good, and what if you change?
Try to do everything for him to be interesting with you. Invite him to go somewhere, go to some restaurant, arrange surprises, let him rest and not break his brains. Women love the candy-bouquet period, so let your man have it! Offer to go to the river in winter, in a beautiful place to play snowballs! Go to the indoor ice rink in summer. Be original, show that you have fun.
Men are not as stupid as we used to think, no need to deceive them with their good behavior. They are only more wary. Let the man know that you can arrange holidays, and the ability to cook, clean and wash is all a matter of gain. If you know how to arrange holidays, then he will definitely want to marry you, because there will not be any scandals in his family due to unwashed dishes, this is not the main thing in life. If your boyfriend will be easy and interesting with you, then he will not care how often you call him, how to cook borsch and what you are wearing. No need to be yourself, change.
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